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Post by margarita on Jan 5, 2022 0:20:40 GMT -5
well, it is a start and as you say, one person alone can't do it. If Albert is willing to do it, it s a good thing, but he can't be doing it just for the kids. Same goes for CW. She has to be willing to do the job as well as being a mother. It is going to be tough. And the end is open as it is a long road. And since she only got out of the physical withdrawal, the psychological part is much harder. She has to unlearn a lot of her habbits as does Albert. Plus they still have to raise the kids together. Worst case they will find out that they won't work and will get help setting up their seperate lives and parenting the kids. Or they finally learn to behave as responsible adults and manage to communicate without tantrums, blackmail or resignation. Albert will probably have to honestly spell out what he expects of a wife and she will have to be honest about whether she is up for the job. Nice said, Paca! Couldn't agree more!!
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Post by margarita on Jan 4, 2022 15:28:22 GMT -5
so apparently she had another visit on january 2nd from Albert and the kids. It looks like they have started family therapy. It does make sense, that after she has withdrawn from the pills, they are starting them out on that. In addition to all the other things she will be doing. I guess she will get frequent visits now. Possibly monitored partially by staff, to see how they all interact. I suppose Albert will also get advice on how to handle the treatment with the kids, how to act at home etc. It could even be that the kids will receive treatment at home, if necessary. There might also be alone sessions for ALbert. This can only work with all involved working together. They might actually become a proper couple. The question is though, if everyone is willing to work for the next few months on this. It is going to be tough, especially when the kids are back at school and Albert has his work. www.bunte.de/stars/star-news/charlne-von-monaco-exklusiv-geheimes-treffen-mit-ihren-kindern.htmlThats a really good step!! Hope too that they all continue to work on it (Albert and Charlene). Won't be easy but its the only thing that makes sense π€π€π€
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Post by margarita on Jan 1, 2022 17:21:12 GMT -5
Donna - her infection was no problem Since 2012 almost 900.000 people in 4 countries benefited from learn to swim she writes herself (according to that article: new.in-24.com/entertainment/celebrities/amp/265014 ) She didn't train them personally I guess but the people who work for her kept the program running and did the work. What I was trying to point out is the focus of her promotion.π It is switching from rhinos to swimming and her ear infection is no reason for that. Rather her state of mind. And here is the point: The Palace and her doctors should protect her from herself while she is in treatment and prevebt her from doing PR. Her posts (or the posts in her name) do harm her reputation.
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Post by margarita on Jan 1, 2022 8:49:59 GMT -5
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Post by margarita on Dec 31, 2021 9:14:57 GMT -5
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Post by margarita on Dec 31, 2021 9:04:09 GMT -5
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Post by margarita on Dec 30, 2021 15:40:26 GMT -5
I think it is ridiculous to expect a photo from the visit, or a special announcement. We saw how she looked in the last photo and there is no need to have another photo. Donna - I wasn't expecting photos. But just the message that they visited her.
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Post by margarita on Dec 30, 2021 7:49:28 GMT -5
well, apparently he has realized that it is about time to bring Monaco into the 21st century and actively promote female causes. It would be nice if he would change the succession law in that respect too. The swedes did that when Victoria was 4 I believe. Until then it was Carl Philip. That was in the late 70s, so how about bringing MC to where Sweden was already in the 80s. If she doesn't want the job, she could still resign in favour of her brother. But at least she would get that education and formation for the job. That would be good! Do we know who of the twins wad born first? Anyway it would be great to give Gabriella a chance. Why not? Only because she is a girl? When I see Gabriella I see Alberts genes. When I look at Jaques - I can't help π¬ sorry - I see Charlene. Especially the eyes and the way he looks. Lets hope it is only physical and give God he has not inherited her (lack of) intelligence and her character π.
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Post by margarita on Dec 30, 2021 7:41:50 GMT -5
I don't expect them to say anything before new year. The kids are on holidays as is Albert. Knowing Albert he is probably combining the visit with skiing in Switzerland and they will see her whenever she is up to it. It could just be an hour or so, depending. Things like that are not predictable. There might be times she can be around them longer, sometimes less. And the effect each encounter has, will be part of her working through things. And I call it working, because it actually is very exhausting. It might take her a day or more to recover and face the next one. It is her rhythm not theirs which is important now. And honestly I don't think that ALbert needs to be on standby to report on his visits to his wife. I am sure there will be a report when there is sth to report. The announcing of a visit over the holidays was meant to shut the media up until after the holidays. We are talking about a sick person here. She has only been in treatment for 6 weeks. That is nothing. You need 30 days to get substances out of your body and get over the physical effects of the abuse. The real treatment just started. So there is nothing to report. The question is how well she will work on the second step. If she only wanted to get rid of the pillpopping and not into the real treatment, then she might be shutting down as soon as she feels physically better. And it might be Albert who has to make it clear to her that she needs to get to the root and continue the treatment if she doesn't want to be back to square one within a few weeks. She is just at the beginning, so we all need to give her time. And as all patients she has a right to privacy. She is not on this planet to satisfy our voyeurism. Agree Paca..
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Post by margarita on Dec 30, 2021 2:10:36 GMT -5
Still no news on Alberts and the kids visit to Charlene. Strange. I'm sure there would have been any announcement if they were there. So it seems there was the plan to see her but it is still not realized. Why? Is she in such a bad condition?
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Post by margarita on Dec 30, 2021 2:08:31 GMT -5
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Post by margarita on Dec 28, 2021 3:01:34 GMT -5
You know, in QC our laws involve the children's opinion or consent on decisions that concern them. I'm proud of our laws that way. While it's nice to try to figure out what might be best for the children, the path to hell is paved with good intentions sometimes. You simply cannot control everything and mold children your way. Chasser le naturel et il reviendra au galop. The things you think you prevent, you cannot predict. If for instance, CC gets massively insecure around Caro, it's not a good idea to make children swallow that pill where they might feel ambiguous when there's no real need to cut things so close while there are plenty of neutral figures to help with their rearing. It's best not to plant something that might split inside them later and backfire. I do agree they should be spared any drama that is self-inflicted by their mother. Their lives are their own to live, without hanging on them the problems of adults. It's not altogether constructive on the other hand to game or mortgage the outcome for CC. She can still come out of this with flying colours and feel more connected to her children. We've seen here in Canada what for example separating indigenous children from parents yields - it morally destroys them. Society should learn to share again the responsibility of protecting children so they may blossom in total security. They are the future. Well-rounded, well-grounded children who know they are loved or esteemed can do anything. You especially know that, as a mom. π lol of course they are. I don't think there is a posher one. More expensive maybe, but not more stylish. I do get why Brad Pitt likes the architects. If I had the money and the real estate, I'd let them do mine. Modern and still you feel cosy. No kids around there who are afraid of dentists. MC needs one like it. They might have done a better job on er face too. the kΓΌssnacht clinic has corbusier chairs etc. but the important thing is the treatment. Hopefully she will go along with it. But still it seems to be mainly focused on substance abuse, so my guess that is considered her primary focus (although IMO it is a symptom and will remain a problem, if she doesn't go to the root and is fiercely honest), especially if she wants to be around the kids without supervision. Regardless of what she is or was addicted to, that is a danger to the children. Not only due to her behaviour and the example she is setting, but also because children like to explore. I remember as a kid sorting our smarties like my gran her diabetis and heart meds. We were constantly warned about it. So much so that I thought as a 2 year old that I was going to die, because in lack of any sweets at home, I ate the sweetener my mum used in our tea. It made me sick and when she came home and asked, what was wrong, I told her I had eaten a load of tablets. My mum of course rushed to the bathroom to find out which ones, but couldn't figure it out, so she asked me and I climbed up to the kitchen cupboard to show her. My mother was so relieved, but Imagine an addict leaving their stuff all over the place, because of course they are hiding things and need to find ever new places to hide. And then you have a huge palace with plenty of hiding places and enquiring little ones... A nightmare come true. Anyways saw an article with a one liner about plans to replace her. Apparently not divorce right away, but the sisters for now on mother duty. I guess Albert realized that letting them run wild wasn't a good idea and that they need structure and disciplin in their life. I think that both have done a good job as mothers, although I think that Caro will be better in preparing them for their future roles. But having close bonds to both aunts and their cousins will be helpful as they get older. And with Caros grandkids, they have plenty of playmates they can trust as adults, because none of them will be financially dependent on them. Unlike their Wittstock cousins. They won't be like their fathers Kelly cousins on the same level. Agentf - my guess is that Albert has realized (not to full amount yet but still) that Charlene will highly likely never be able to go back to her former life. Even before the therapy she fount parenting exhausting and never really worked as First Lady. If children in dysfunctional families have no mother as positive female role model it is best for them to have another female established to serve as positive female role model. It can be someone from outside the family if there is nobody in the family. But they have Caro and Steph. As for the possibility of tensions when and if Charlene comes really back into the family: I think Albert is focused on the wellbeing of the kids. Thats prio 1. Charlenes problem with Caro is part of Charlenes issues and she has the best help to solve it now. Thats why I don't think anyone bothers. What bothers me more is the posibility that one of the kids might have inherited a predisposition on mental desease.
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Post by margarita on Dec 27, 2021 8:34:24 GMT -5
Weren't Albert and the kids supposed to visit Charlene over Christmas? Christmas is over. No press release from Palace, no post from Charlene - still no visit? They were supposed to visit her at the asylum. Picture taking is probably prohibited at the place. They could have posted a painting like the Christmas card. But they would have shared the information if Albert and the kids would have been there to visit her. As for instagram posts ect. - sure Charlene has someone to post for her. But didn't she need peace and privacy? Then it would be best to not post or let post anything. Stay calm abd quiet.
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Post by margarita on Dec 27, 2021 7:21:43 GMT -5
Weren't Albert and the kids supposed to visit Charlene over Christmas? Christmas is over. No press release from Palace, no post from Charlene - still no visit?
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Post by margarita on Dec 27, 2021 2:12:04 GMT -5
www.google.com/amp/s/www.express.co.uk/news/royal/1539522/princess-charlene-health-secrets-resent-institution-house-of-grimaldi-vn/ampWell, I woudn't go so far and don't think that the Monegasque people will question the whole institution due to the situation with Charlene now. But like Paca wrote a few says ago - the pressure on Albert might be growing. People will expect him to say more and say more precisely about her state of health. Some kind of diagnose after being in treatment for some weeks or month. The longee she is absent - the more people will wonder when she comes back and will she ever be able to perform her duties again on a permanent basis. And they would be much more patient if she had ever performed them. But so...
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Post by margarita on Dec 26, 2021 16:19:52 GMT -5
Why can't she simply stop posting but focus on her recovery? And why the hospital and/ or the Palace don't cut off the chanel so far? I mean - Albert himself said she needs peace now.
And -yes, paca- it is again mainly about her and herself. Like was her birthday post for the twins. "I'm so blessed having you." π But the poor kids are not blessed by having a mother like you. Ever thought about it?! And I don't mean by that having mental issues. That can hit anyone. But being absolute egoistic and not grown up.
They gave you the chance to get out of the circus for a while and to focus on your true self. To get healthy. WHY these posts??
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Post by margarita on Dec 23, 2021 9:20:02 GMT -5
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Post by margarita on Dec 15, 2021 15:39:38 GMT -5
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Post by margarita on Dec 14, 2021 23:33:44 GMT -5
Why I mentioned that: Paca wrote that last year she appearently shaved her head when she had a nervous breakdown and someone was trying to stop her from doing this. Thats why I wondered whether she continued later - shaving the other side.
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Post by margarita on Dec 14, 2021 7:40:06 GMT -5
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